Be The Boss Of Your Own Funeral (New Experience)

Step 1: Choose a funeral home and director

 Selecting the right funeral home and director is an essential part of funeral planning. It is important to choose a funeral home and director that will be sensitive to your needs, values, and cultural beliefs. You can research local funeral homes online, read reviews, and ask for recommendations from friends and family members who have recently had to plan a funeral. Once you have selected a funeral home, schedule a meeting with the director to discuss your options and preferences.

During the meeting, the director will provide you with general guidance and support. They will help you with the collection and care of the person who has died, planning and overseeing proceedings, and organising and coordinating other parties involved in the funeral. The director will also provide you with a price list for their services, which can help you to determine your budget.

Step 2: Decide on the type of funeral and coffin

 There are many options available when it comes to planning a funeral. You can choose a traditional burial, cremation, green burial, interment in a mausoleum, or another type of service. Each option has its advantages and disadvantages, and it is essential to consider your personal beliefs, values, and financial situation before making a decision.

Once you have decided on the type of funeral, you can select a coffin or casket that fits your preferences and budget. Coffins can be made from various materials, such as solid wood, chipboard, cardboard, or other biodegradable materials. You can also personalise the coffin with images or messages.

Step 3: Arrange the funeral service

The funeral service is an opportunity to celebrate the life of the person who has died and to provide comfort and closure to those who are grieving. You can customise the service to reflect the person’s personality, beliefs, and values. Some of the things you can arrange include:

• What mourners need to wear. For example, it’s common for people to wear brighter colours at more modern funerals.

• The music to be played during the service and as mourners exit.

• A personal eulogy or tribute to the person who has died.

• Funeral flowers and arrangements, which can be chosen to reflect the person’s favourite colours or flowers.

• Poems or readings to be read during the service.

Step 4: Locate all pre-arrangements

If the person who has died had made any pre-arrangements, it is important to locate them and follow them. Pre-arrangements can include decisions about burial or cremation, the type of funeral service, and any other special requests the person may have had. It is essential to include any pre-arrangements in the will or to tell a trusted family member or friend about them.

If the person had paid for funeral plots, bought funeral insurance, or chosen a memorial service, these should also be included in the will. This can help to ensure that the person’s wishes are carried out and that their legacy is honoured.